Stick with me here.
Capes … what’s on your nightstand? …ahh, Punta Cana - nice! … green light …attitude, aptitude, fortitude … celebrate Lois … on goals, planning and execution … what happens in your life, starts in your gut … Campania … what’s in your briefcase? … on mentors, coaches and role models … where’s a pen and paper when you need one? … transcend walls … how’s Nick doing? … Dylan’s detox … as you wish … what will they do with that? …quilts … the biggest loser … book signing event.
What was that? That was the voices in my head. Don’t grab your iPhone and call the nearest facility for the mentally insane. It’s not time to commit me … well at least not for this.
Those snippets arrived during my ride from New Jersey to Connecticut early Friday morning as the moon faded and morning took shape. With Lily curled on my lap, I drove along the familiar 130-mile trek, enjoyed the symphony of silence and let my thoughts flow. When I realized the volume and variety of ideas flashing in and out of my mind, I struggled to embed at least a partial list into my memory and then scribbled them into a journal as quickly as I recalled them when I arrived home.
This is real stuff. You have it too, and yes, you do want it. Random thoughts run through our minds constantly. This is not your daily to-do list. These are thoughts, though seemingly jumbled and useless at the moment, that can launch dreams into reality.
Do you listen to the voices in your head? What do they say?
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words
While shopping recently I was within earshot of a supervisor openly admonishing an employee for what they considered an error in judgment. Her words were cutting and filled with sarcasm. Along with other innocent shoppers, I became witness to this bullying style of leadership and I shot sympathetic and supporting glances to the victim. I moved along quickly, sure the tirade would end once the audience had passed. As I did, I thought about the two women. I wondered what caused one to be so verbally brutal to others? Why didn’t the employee lash back? Was it out of respect, or possibly fear? Perhaps she was afraid she would her job.
Our words are powerful. Whether parenting, in business situations and even conversations with friends, our words can be pearls of wisdom or weapons of destruction. Choose them carefully.
- Think first… speak second.
- Encourage don’t criticize.
- Compliment in public, correct in private.
- Consider the receiver’s perspective.
- Lead people; manage situations.
- Eliminate sarcasm, negativity, and cynicism.
- Teach with tolerance.
What impact do you words have?
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A dear friend lost a dear friend this past week. Over the past several months, she had posted his turn-of-live events on Facebook and we all knew his life was coming to an end. We sent our get-well wishes and then our condolences. I honor Terri and her family for their love and dedication to their faithful friend, Bronson.
Another friend showed this to me today. The irony that it fell on the heels of Bronson’s passing compelled me to share it. I do not know its origin and thank the author for this great advice.
Ten Commandments for Pet Owners
- My life is likely to last 10 to 15 years. Any separation from you will be very painful.
- Give me time to understand what you want from me. Do not break my spirit with your temper, though I will always forgive you. Your patience will teach me more effectively.
- Please have me spayed or neutered.
- Treat me kindly, my beloved friend, for no heart in all the world is more grateful for your kindness than mine. Don’t be angry with me for long, and don’t lock me up as punishment. After all, you have your job, your friends, and your entertainment. I have only you.
- Speak to me often. Even if it don’t understand your words, I understand your voice when it speaks to me. Your voice is the sweetest sound I ever hear, as you must know by my enthusiasm whenever I hear your footsteps.
- Take me in when it’s cold and wet. I’m a domestic animal and am no longer accustomed to the bitter elements. I ask for little more than your gentle hands petting me. Keep my bowl filled with water. Freed me good food so that I may stay well to romp and play and do your bidding. By your side I stand ready, willing and able to share my life with you, for that is what I live for. I’ll never forget how well you have treated me.
- Do not hit me. Remember, I have teeth that can easily crush the bones in your hand, but I choose not be bite you.
- Before you scold me for being lazy or uncooperative, ask yourself if something might be bothering me. Perhaps I’m not getting the right food, or I’ve been in the sun too long; my hearing maybe getting weak.
- Take care of me when I get old. For you will grow old too.
- When I am old or when I no longer enjoy good health, please do not make heroic efforts to keep me going. I am not having fun. Just see to it that my trusting life is taken gently. And be with me on that difficult journey when it is time to say goodbye. Never say, “I just can’t bear to watch.” Everything is easier for me when you are there. I will leave this earth knowing with my last breath that my fate was always safest in your hands. I love you.
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